Being the love means committing to being loving and kind even when you don’t want to. Even when you don’t feel like it. Especially when you don’t feel like it.
This truth applies to all things in life that are worth a damn. Whether it’s being a good boss, employee, friend or parent. It’s easy to give a damn when all is great, but caring when you don’t feel like it is how integrity and character are developed. Its how you create a life you can be proud to live and how you can inspire others. At the very least, it allows you to create some congruency between how you want to be and how you actually are. I don’t know about you, but when I’m congruent I hate myself less and have more to give others.